
You CAN Heal and Restore Your Marriage!
When you said your “I Do’s,” you and your spouse had a vision of a future filled with hope and promise. Despite what you face now and where you may be in your relationship, you can regain that vision.
When you said your “I Do’s,” you and your spouse had a vision of a future filled with hope and promise. Despite what you face now and where you may be in your relationship, you can regain that vision.

Finally! A male survivor speaks out about male childhood sexual abuse. Randy offers survivors and their families answers to their questions of why victims act out the way they do, and strategies to start living with greater purpose and happiness.

Finally! A male survivor speaks out about male childhood sexual abuse. Randy offers survivors and their families answers to their questions of why victims act out the way they do, and strategies to start living with greater purpose and happiness.

All too often when one is confronted about their less than desirable behavior, they will answer with, “well that’s just the way I am and if you don’t like it to bad.” The truth of the matter is, that was a reaction that they most likely learned and one that was handed down from generation to generation. The reality is, this is great news. You see if we’ve learned less than becoming attitudes from our parents and peers, this means we can unlearn them and learn new perspectives, which will create or generate new behaviors. As in his first book Healing The Man Within, Randy uses his own experiences as well as lessons learned from the many men, women, and couples he has worked with over the past ten plus years to guide you on a thirty day journey to wholeness. Change is possible; one just has to be open-minded, willing and ready.

You picked up this book for a reason. Even in your darkest moments of doubt, there’s a glimmer of hope—a desire to restore the relationship that once brought you joy, security, and pride. You remember when it was strong, fulfilling, and reliable, and now you're longing to bring that connection back to life.
We invite you to hold on to that spark of hope as you turn the page and embark on a transformative journey. In this book, we introduce you to the H.E.A.L. process, guiding you step-by-step through seven essential tools to rebuild and strengthen your marriage or relationship. What are those tools? Reaffirm, Express, Support, Talk, Overcome, Reconcile, and Embrace. Together, we’ll explore how to use these powerful strategies to rekindle the bond you once cherished and create a future full of possibility.
We invite you to hold on to that spark of hope as you turn the page and embark on a transformative journey. In this book, we introduce you to the H.E.A.L. process, guiding you step-by-step through seven essential tools to rebuild and strengthen your marriage or relationship. What are those tools? Reaffirm, Express, Support, Talk, Overcome, Reconcile, and Embrace. Together, we’ll explore how to use these powerful strategies to rekindle the bond you once cherished and create a future full of possibility.